Have you ever went to a party and no one spoke to you? No one looked at you? Or, maybe no one was interested in you? That’s not a good feeling, right? It’s the same way in your chat room.
Most people who spend time with you online want to feel special. They probably want to make you feel special, too, given the opportunity. If you sense that, return the favor to them, and feel that smile spread on their face (or through their tips), because you’ve just upped the excitement level in their bodies.
No matter if you’re giving a Group Show, a Party Chat, or just chilling in an Open Room, the more special you can make your customers feel, the more likely they are to want to get to know you better, and more privately. Instead of feeling left out of the party, they suddenly feel included, fuzzy inside, special, and wanted. Most importantly, you’ve made an impression on them that they won’t soon forget and that’s part of the show.
As a model, your chat room is not only driven by your physical performance and sexual appeal, but also by how you choose to interact (i.e. chat or speak or communicate) with those who have chosen to spend time (and hopefully money) in your room. Thus, it’s very important how you communicate with those who have chosen to spend time with you online. Greeting customers with a blown kiss, a wave, a smile, with a vocal shout-out, or with a personalized whisper can catch their attention and make them want to further interact with you. Of course, we all have moments when we just want to relax and keep quiet, but remember that new people are coming into your room all the time. At heart, communication is king. 
Keep in mind that some users also enjoy watching a chat unfold as a kind of silent voyeur. They want to see your replies to others. They want to hear your voice. They want to hear you laugh and moan. They want to experience whatever role you’re performing. In short, they want to watch you. Taking a moment to talk to your customers, even if they don’t reply, could transform your live experience in a positive and more profitable way.
Webcamming has evolved a lot since its humble origins twenty years ago. In the current climate, cam models are expected to engage customers with interactive devices, be active on social media platforms, attend industry events, and even take on a niche celebrity appeal. But certain fundamentals haven’t changed. The most important being… “Use your voice.” The act of customer to model camming works so well because of the personal bond that can arise when both parties are actively engaged in the moment. The more real you can make the experience, the better of an experience it will be, and using your voice is one key way to increase the illusion of closeness. 
We’ve said it before and we’ll say it again — having a well-maintained profile will greatly help you out in the long run. Remember, the Internet doesn’t sleep. People are coming to your profile at all hours of the night and day. Just because you aren’t online, doesn’t mean people aren’t going to somehow find you. So, what happens when they arrive at your offline profile? Are you going to let them get away or do you want to catch them and make it so that they are absolutely eager to return to your room when you are online? I think the answer is obvious. 
We all know that you are more than just a talking head on cam. You are a real flesh and blood human being. And, you know all about yourself. But does a customer who has never once met you in person really know who you are? No, of course not. So, your profile is the best way to lay the foundation of what they can expect to see in your room. You could also tell them other things about yourself that could lure them in for time to meet you. Ultimately, meeting you will be a great experience, and it’s what can lead you one step closer to gaining a new fan. 
What is a silent room? Well, a silent room is a room where no one is engaging with you, where you are not engaging with your fans, and where, in general, nothing much is really going on. Maybe you’ve had the experience of visiting other models’ cam rooms and, upon entering, seen that no one is chatting, no one is talking. Maybe the model is gazing off into space. Or, maybe he or she is checking their cell phone or yawning, etc. Ask yourself, is this a good look for a cam model? Is this type of behavior going to attract customers? Do you think customers will be impressed by this behavior? Professionally, we at Guide to Camming, tend to think not. 
Music helps. Music can help you open yourself up on cam. It can also help lighten the mood of your room. Try creating a playlist that makes you feel sexy and confident and compliments your persona on cam. What would you call such a playlist? Would the first song be one that energizes the room or would it be something personal and inward-facing? The playlist you create or choose should suit your style. Show customers who you are by how you express yourself. Personally, I like to choose music that gets me in an absolutely hyped-up mood and makes me feel sexy so that my camming persona never drops. 
