Customers come to your room for a fantasy experience. Maybe they want you to want them. Maybe they want to talk dirty to you. Maybe they just want a companion who they know will be online at a certain time everyday, someone they can communicate with and get closer to. Maybe they are horny, it’s late at night, and they enter your room ready to party hard. I think all customers who come to a chat room have the desire to step into a fantasy they can’t get in their day-to-day lives. They come to your room to leave reality and enter a new reality. In this way, you play a very important role in their lives. You allow them to safely escape from their normal life and, for a period of time, live out their fantasy with you.
If you can understand what your customers want, and if you’re comfortable with the fantasy (and if it adheres to our rules & regulations), then go for the experience and be that fantasy that your customers want to see. You could also start your night (or day) by putting yourself in a fantasy situation. For example, you could start your broadcast wearing a new outfit or costume (a doctor or nurse, a teacher, a dominatrix, etc). Greet your customers from the point of view as whatever role you’re playing. Draw them into your fantasy and keep them there. When customers get turned on, I mean, really turned on, they lose track of the outside world. It’s like when someone plays a video game that they love. Watch that person lose track of the outside world — hours pass and they had no idea. If you can successfully draw that customer into your fantasy, they won’t want to leave. The fantasy will consume them and that’s always a good thing. They’ll want more. They’ll come back for more. Try it!


Giving thanks on cam for a tip is always the right move. Imagine that you are a customer. Maybe you work three jobs. Or, maybe you work one very laborious full-time job. Your money counts. Every dollar counts. As a treat to yourself, you choose to spend time at your cam site of choice. There, you find a model who really gets you jazzed up. You want to tip. So, when the mood hits you, you drop a tip to show the model how much you care. But… the model doesn’t reply. It seems like the model really doesn’t care. And, suddenly, more customers start tipping. The model says nothing. He or she just carries on. Did they see your tip? Did they notice it? Maybe they were just too busy. So, you wait until a different day, a slower day, and drop another tip. But, even then, upon tipping, the model says nothing. You know that they saw the tip. You know that they felt the tip (it was a nice-sized tip!) yet, they said nothing. If you were that customer, do you think you’d want to keep visiting that model? I’d guess not. People like to be a part of something that they desire. If you receive a tip, please show your appreciation to the tipper. That one act of appreciation could keep that customer coming back for a long time.
are. Everyone likes to know that they are special. Customers are no different. Show your appreciation to them and that appreciation will keep them coming back. It’s the simplest truth, but believe me, it is a truth to be reckoned with. 
Have you ever been involved in a conversation where the person you are talking to won’t stop talking about themselves? Think closely. What usually ends up happening in such a situation? In my experience, my eyes start to grow heavy, my vision blurs from the boredom, and my head hits the table before I even know it. Yes, it’s painfully boring when a person spends too much time talking about themselves. What will set you apart is the level at which you are genuinely interested in your customers. Engage them. Remember that customers, like anyone else, want to feel desired and wanted. So, what can you do? Here are a few simple things that you can start doing today to better cultivate a sense of becoming more interested in your room.
First, Get to know them as a person, not a bank. When performing, don’t just pleasure yourself and stare at the ceiling. Instead, talk and engage with your customer. Get off to them, or at least appear to do so. People genuinely want to be fed their value and feel sexy and wanted and desired. Assure your customer has an experience they will never forget and keep them coming back for more.
Finally, get engaged with your five senses (and try to engage your customers’ senses). Even through a digital screen, various senses can be engaged positively by using your imagination and encouraging your customer to use their imagination. Engage the mind and the body will follow. Plus, customers will definitely be more convinced that you are interested in them if you are curious about what they look like, what they smell like (what cologne or perfume they wear), how tall they are, what their voice sounds like, etc. Be genuinely interested in getting to know them. You are the star, but help them feel like the center of attention as well. Ask them what some of their fantasies are and what kind of people they are attracted to, and then create that character for them in your next show together.
Plus, games give purpose to your time on cam. Also, having a purpose is important. Let’s say you’re looking to change up your normal routine, why not try a game. Here are some links you can study to increase your understanding of what kind of games might work best for you. Remember, playing games on cam is not for everyone and sometimes members will try to alter the rules or take advantage of a competitive situation. The more aware you are of that possibility the more you can work your game-time to your advantage.



